What's it called when guys only talk to you after they break up with their girlfriend? Like they are hitting on you right after? I mean I don't want them to hit on me while they are with their girlfriend obviously. But it's like they break up with their girlfriend talk to me and act interested and then get back with their girlfriends. It's really hard to describe but message to you.....please stop making me feel like I'm not good enough to be a first choice or like I am some filler for your time alone. It seriously hurts me and makes me feel useless.